trying to be friend..

salam jumaat...
when we first trying to get to know somebody................
a. throw away all the speculation u've heard about that person
b. start with a clean slate
c. stay quiet till u feel comfortable
d. observe their tune
e. try to absorb
f. accept

and finally the chemistry will eventually mix... ;)

THESE are the lessons i learned during 1 month staying in melaka bandaraya bersejarah during the survey camp..
y so???

huhu......

and  here comes the story,,,

about a month ago,,,, haha.. aku g survey camp... tetibe ckp mlayu....
ok.... 1st nite,, err bkn 1st nite yg tu.. hari pertama kat sana, ade discussion about all the tasks, appointing leaders bla bla bla n bla... dat nite jgk, ade pembahgian group.... haaaaaaaaa........... the worst part was,, my group (my old group) got to split... uhuk... dh biase bersama den kn pecah.. sedey woooo..... menagis gak la... ehem... ok.. move on... pas pade tu kene join dis group lain... master die name syahir. yg lain2 anak2 buah die ok lah... x brape knl tp cam ok la....... apekebende..???
 ok den... mlm tu sedey2 x nak ckp ngan sape.. konon mangsa keadaan la ni kan... uhuk... esoknya terus turun site kat Bukit Cina... (nama bukit cina but actually it is located at the old chinese cemetary)... atas bukit.. woooo.... wa sgt amat takut wooo...

suprisingly, all these new guys and girls are really friendly, polite, caring, annoying (hahahhaha) and fun.
within a day, we already clicked with each other...

mase wat report... problem arise... tp berjaya ditepis dgn adenye analyzer berjaya, MISS ATIKAH.. yg slalu menyakat org x kr tmpt, MR. JAMAL... yg mastermind jln2 kat mlaka n slalu willing tlg belikan makanan,MR. DAUD... yg slalu tido n plg baloq liat time nak wat report, MR. HASLAM, tlg kemaskini data n tukang planning keje, MR SYAHIR, tukang wat calculation n jg processor, MISS FATIN,, yg berjaya kemaskini report yg beratus2 page, MISS SAL n not to be forgotten,, assistant FATIN n ATIKAH yg slalu tertido tp still berjaya menyiapkan keje on time, hehehe,,, MISS IZATY.. ihik...

tadaaaaa.....!!!!!!!!!!

left to right: Tika, Syahir, Fatin, Haslam, Zaty, Jamal, Sal n Daud ( Best Team BROS!!!!)

here's more

ihik... comel lak tgk pic ni lame2..

pillar calibration... x ingat dh kat mn site nih... 1 big happy family..

best giler time nih...

perigi hang li po

err.. tgh mkn time kat site... camnih lah time mkn surveyor.. harap jgn terkejut tgk ini pic... cr je available space utk mkn...

letih woo... dh la penat, panas, gempa bumi plak... nsb baik xde pape..

pengajaran??

sgt byk... at first i've never have thought that i will ever gonna get along with these guys... but.. rahsia ALLAH... sometimes we meet great people when we are least expected.... there's always a hikmah to everything.. so i praise ALLAH for that... dont be too judgemental, juz be aware... 

thanks to all of u guys, the final SC akhirnya jd pengalaman yg sgt maniss dan penuh hilai tawa... x akan kulupa hingga ke akhirnya...

ps:/ ade lagi post utk kawan2 yang lain.. diharap TunGGGuuuuuu..............

gambar2 ni MR, SYAHIR yg punye... jgn marah syahir...
Syahir is one of my team members, a very gifted n talented photographer.... sape nk kawen ke nk kan service photographer sile bagitau....

childhood schizophrenia

assalamualaikum... salam jumaat....

satu mlm...jam dh dkt 1 pg.. so ape lg.. pegi ddk dpn tv tekan2 button remote astro...

terbkk la saluran 702 (DIVA)..

kebetulan rancangan the Oprah Winfrey Show. hmpr ja nk tukar channel lain, terdengar lak si Oprah ni sebut pasal schizophrenia.... terpaku seketika... dulu prnh terbace satu artikel kat mingguan malaysia bahagian kesihatan.. tp isu yg dibawakan Oprah ni very different sbb yg menghidapi penyakit ni is a 7 yrs old girl, namanya Jani Schofield... skali tgk comel, mata kaler biru <anak mat saleh la plak> tp cian................. :(

start ngan schizophrenia,

from my readings, ia adalah sejenis mental disorder. jarang sekali menyerang kanak2 under the age of 10... so, case like Jani's is actually rare... kat sini I terangkan ape I faham je la kalau nk taw lebih lanjut sile google.... 

org kalau schizo ni die suke berhalusinasi.. berfantasi bg org nrml cam kite tp die x... cam case si Jani she creates her own world. nama dunia tu calalini.. in this world, exist her imaginary friends contohnya wednesday the rat, 73, 72, cat 400 dan sebagainya... ya that's how she named them,, by numbers mostly.. 

yg pelik tu, 7 years old and oredy bley plak p bagi nama2 kat menatang2 tu nombor yg cecah 70++.. ok fine may b sbb kat sana budak darjah satu mmg cepat pandai mengire... tolak tepi satu kepelikkan.. tp si Jani ni punye medical history, when she was 3, iq test die menunjukkan angka 146.. means iq yg lagi ligat pd org2 berpangkat proffesor tu.. kalau nk lebih paham sila klik disini... means die punya brain activities are actually very active..

menurut her parents, Jani dah mmg menunjukkan sifat agak psycho since she was still a baby.. but biasalah baby suke nangis,, x mo tido,, meragam... some people would say that's normal.. bile die dh umo 3 thn, then nmpk kelainan from the way she talks and how she socializes with people,, at this stage dia still ok.. tp semakin lame dia dah krg berckp n berkawan dengan org n suddenly she stopped.  may be because die dh ade kawan2 lain kot n tkt kwn2 die yg lain ni marah.. its true because they sometimes bite her, hit her, scratch her and tell her to do things.. hallucination die jd lebih parah bile die sampai ke tahap mencederakan diri sendiri and boleh menyebabkan kematian.. so her parents are actually struggling not only to make sure that she's ok but also to make sure that they can keep her alive.... her parents also live in separate apartment sbb Jani ni ade sorg adik lelaki nama Bodi n die akan slalu try utk cederakan Bodi whenever she can.. so, 1 apartment utk Bodi n 1 apartment utk Jani.. and their parents take turn to take care of both kids, what a sacrifice.. may b tulisan ni agak simple and u oll x paham so boleh tgk video di bwh utk kefahaman anda..

some people also commented that this mental disorder does not exist.. some say that she was possessed by the evil spirit.. still, doctors also argue about the existance of schizhophrenia... but from what i saw in this video is............................... speechless... i've met several people with mental disorder from my 23 years walking on this planet.. but i've nvr have seen anyone like Jani.. kesian pown ada... how she manages telan different kinds of meds hari2... siap tau jenis2 ubat yg dia mkn n utk apa..

ada satu lagi video about this family x leh diletakkan di sini tapi kalau nk tgk ini linknya... n ini lagi satu..

n yg ni

bersyukurlah kita kerana diberikan kewarasan akal n fikiran...so use it wise

ps:/ alhamdulillah.. syukur ya allah...