Sunday, 26 June 2011

im sorry

???????????? pe kes tetibe mintk maap... ape ke pelik punye manusia ni???
hehe.... harini kite cite dl cane nk mntk maap.. nnt2 kt story lg dlm2 sambil letak kes study ke... ok??
bace ni dl.. absorp leklok ek...

for me, berkenaan tajuk di atas, sorry is something that u need to say or express whenever any of ur doings or sayings hurt others. dose wooo kalau x mntk maap... baik camane pown kite tp kalau org x maafkan slh kite,, hancur gak..

question?? agak2 kan cane care plg best nak mntk maap??

ade byk cara wahai budiman sekalian;
1. openly
means pegi dpn muke owang tuh and juz say sorry, even xde perkataan lain dlm kotak pikiran kite time tuh,, ckp je sorry justeru fuyooo that someone akan terkejut n kate its ok. tp ni kalau utk kes2 ringan la.. kalau kes berat mau mkn penampar time tuh kan.. anyway my advice is confront the subject not running away from it.
give him/her a call,, explain sehabis baik. n bl sampai part nk say sorry tu, say it n mean it. jgn dok wat lebey korang. nk lg advance video cam.. tp mcm x mujarab ja sbb at any second org di sana leh close muke korg sbb dh menyampah sgt kan...

x pown mntk maap depn kwn2 yg lain,, so that org tu xleh mengelat g toilet ke, tmn bunge ke... sampai jd peristiwa ayaq mata pown x pe... jgn risau... kasi kek ke..ihik.. tp kn ikhlas.. jgn lps seminit korg bersorak ngan kwn2 lain kat blakang... PAHAM??!!

2. tak openly
benda ape ni bai... cenggini... ade org yg malu nk memohon kemaafan. haaa yg ni satu diseaswe yg  aku mmg x akan pernah paham... may be die rs bl mntk maap tuh maruah dia jatuh??? atau malu ngan kengkawan yg sumanya buta perut, hati, hempedu, pankreas and so on.. tidak terfikirkah dia once u say sorry u will feel really relief? satu beban dh hilang.. pasni leh jln kat koridor tanpa perlu menundukkan kepala bl ternmpk org tertentu.. x gitu?? anyway dengan cara x openly inilah technology can be implemented. example; SMS<very simple> walaupon harge bape posen je but really valuable. sbb even org tu x reply kite still boleh tulis ape yg tersemat di kalbu.. kan?? that way, even though org x maafkan, at least kite dh bg dia idea about how sorry we are. kan kan?? thats the least yg kt leh expect. tulis surat pown ok gak <letak bedak byk2 kasi wangi> mcm ms tulis surat chenta time skolah2 dl tu.. haaa... ramai yg senyum tuh... pernah buat nih.... GATAI!!

in short, nk habis dah tulih pjg2 pown bkn hampa nk baca..uhuk.. ok camni.. the point is, when u feel guilty of something u do n u r ready to say sorry and take responsibility of the trouble u caused,,,,, say sorry.. its not to prove that u r weak, its the sign that u r a person with value. way to express it is actually up to u as long as the other party understand the point of it. dan sila gn bahase yg boleh difahami oleh kedua - dua belah pihak.. jgn la gn bhs italy plak ngan kwn yg x paham,, tu x pasal2 kn sepak cine jinjang kang. kalau x leh ckp,, tulis..... x salah... i think lg ramai org lg prefer mohon maap dgn menulis dr berckp... sbb kite akan rase more comfortable dgn menulis dr face to face.. thats y SMS is very popular.. kan3??.....
ok enuff utk entry ni... lastly,, pohonlah kemaafan, kalau boleh sampai u sure that kemaafan itu bersambut,, kerana selagi ianya tiada kata putus, selagi itulah kita hidup dgn mengingati memori x spttnya.. ianya memecahkan, menyakitkan, mengguriskan dan memutuskan nilai persahabatan 2 insan... or may be more...

chill people
PS: jgn chill sgt2 ye, arini dh senin,, keje2......

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